I am thankful for the growing realisation that much of what causes angst and grief in our lives is not personal. It may feel personal because we experience it within our personal space. Yet if we are able to step back out of the heat within the moment, we may find that the perceived assault, attack or insult may indeed have little to do with us. Or we may discover that we have set out on a very foolish or unwise path which guarantees chaotic grief to anyone who insists on continuing in that particular direction.
Becoming thankful as a verb means choosing to actively engage tense and difficult moments as an opportunity to gain wisdom. I’ve found that some of life’s most teachable moments are draped within the unconventional garb of emotionally charged exchanges. When examined in clearer context, these situation often have a larger context which may not be initially visible. And then… Sometimes life just is simply what it is.
When the fault is mine, becoming thankful for the course correction makes regaining equilibrium easier and minimizes the loss of vested emotional, spiritual and mental energy. On this note, I am reminded of the experience of one hapless prophet and his improbable tutor – one very stubborn talking donkey as the story is told in the book of Numbers 22:1-39.
Balam’s reckless journey to curse the Israelites as commissioned by Balak is interrupted by an angel threatening to end his life. Unfortunately, Balam is blind to the danger right in front of him. Fortunately his donkey is not! After beating the hapless beast repeatedly, the donkey finds a voice and has a conversation with Balam about his angry response.
It is only then that Balam’s yes are opened to his foolishness. He also sees the angel with a sword who is about to chop him into minced meat to punish him for messing with the wrong people! The stunned prophet ends up having a conversation with both a donkey and an angel about the dubious course he seems hell-bent on taking. Suddenly the resistance of that donkey became something to be very grateful for!
Sometimes, it takes the bizarre elements of life to awaken us to the fact that we have much to become thankful for. Becoming thankful as a way of responding to obstacles may actually awaken the power of grace and God’s protection in the midst of seemingly insurmountable difficulty.